The Audaci-Tea

Pick-Me Friends

This week on The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen tackle the topic of "Pick-Me" friends - women who center their lives around male validation, often at the expense of their own well-being and female solidarity. But first, in our opening Tea Time segment, the hosts discuss Elon Musk's campaign to financially influence voters in Wisconsin, the "21 and No Kids" trend, and more. Plus, a Canadian Patreon member shares her perspective on American-Canadian relations.
 
In our main discussion on "Pick-Me" friends, we explore the challenges of maintaining friendships with women who prioritize male attention, the emotional toll of these dynamics, and the importance of self-love and independence. The conversation highlights the dangers of internalized misogyny, the impact of male validation on personal relationships, and how surrounding oneself with male-centered individuals can be detrimental to everyone involved.
 
Finally, in our closing segment, we introduce a brand-new film review feature. This week, we analyze the TV mini-series Adolescence, which examines the complexities of youth violence, focusing on the character Jamie Miller, who is arrested for murder. The discussion dives into the impact of toxic masculinity on young boys, the importance of responsible parenting, and the broader societal influences shaping young men's behaviors. The hosts critique the portrayal of women in media and emphasize the consequences of inaction when addressing these systemic issues.
 
🎧 This episode unpacks the intricacies of female friendships, self-worth, and the effects of male validation in a patriarchal society.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The impact of “Pick-Me” women on female friendships and self-worth.
How male validation influences women’s choices and behaviors.
The importance of self-love and independence in relationships.
Why toxic masculinity harms both men and women.
How political decisions affect education, democracy, and activism.
The societal pressures behind the "21 and no kids" trend.
The role of media in shaping gender expectations and biases.
Parenting’s crucial influence in preventing radicalization and toxic behaviors.
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Musk group offers $100 to Wisconsin voters ahead of pivotal state Supreme Court election
Trump orders a plan to eliminate the Education Department
Trump Says He Loves The Poorly Educated
The Senate passed a bill to help sick veterans. Then 25 Republicans reversed course
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
Adolescence TV Mini-Series
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:13 Musk and The Wisconsin Supreme Court 05:45 Trump Says He Loves The Poorly Educated 11:52 White People Need To Step It Up With Protesting 15:53 Veterans and Political Dynamics 17:27 The 21 with No Kids Trend and Regretful Parents 22:02 The Reality of Parenting and Societal Pressures 26:21 Canadian-American Relations From a Canadian Perspective 31:12 Understanding "Pick-Me" Women 34:16 The Dangers of Male-Centered Relationships 44:16 The Importance of Female Friendships 54:48 The Cycle of Toxic Relationships 01:15:00 Film Review: Adolescence TV Mini-Series 01:49:43 Poll Results on Starter Wives
 
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth.
 
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Girl Code (feat. Savannah of FDS)

This week on The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen celebrate the launch of our first video version of the show! Head over to and subscribe to our YouTube channel to see!
We are absolutely thrilled to welcome Savannah of The Female Dating Strategy to the show to discuss the idea of "Girl Code." But first, in our opening Tea Time segment, the conversation covers the latest news, including Trump's latest immigration and tariff controversies, death by firing squad coming back to certain US states, and economic troubles.
In our main discussion with Savannah, the conversation delves into the importance of solidarity among women and the internalized misogyny that often hinders progress. The introduction of the Female Dating Strategy (FDS) podcast back in 2020 highlights the need for women to empower each other and challenge societal norms. The conversation reflects on the ongoing struggles for women's rights and the importance of recognizing the progress being made while touching on the future of feminism and the importance of intersectionality in understanding women's experiences across different social classes and cultures.
Finally, in our mailbag segment, the hosts answer a question on why women aren't being diagnosed with autism as easily as men.
🎧 This conversation encourages women to stop splitting hairs over the intricacies of feminism and to instead get on Girl Code and build solidarity with your sisters to fight for true liberation.
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
Political issues are deeply intertwined with social justice and women's rights.
Women are often overlooked in medical studies, leading to biases in diagnosis.
The patriarchy influences how women's health issues are perceived and treated.
Internalized misogyny can lead to women holding each other to higher standards than men.
Women are often criticized more harshly than men for their actions and beliefs.
Solidarity among women is crucial for combating patriarchy.
The importance of intersectionality in feminist discourse is crucial.
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Trial By Fire Film
South Carolina inmate executed by firing squad for first time in US since 2010
Trump administration deports hundreds of immigrants even as a judge orders their removals be stopped
Where Trump's tariffs will hit your grocery list, from avocados to frozen fish
A GOP Lawmaker Was Heckled By A Crowd At A Town Hall Over DOGE Cuts, And The Video Is Absolutely Chilling
Are we heading into a recession? Here's what the data shows
Lower-income customers struggling to afford "basic essentials," CEO says
Lysol’s Vintage Ads Subtly Pushed Women to Use Its Disinfectant as Birth Control
Men Are Creating AI Girlfriends and Then Verbally Abusing Them
📚 This Week's Recommendation:
The Female Dating Strategy
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:42 Exploring Death Penalty and Its Implications 14:08 Economic Indicators and Recession Predictions 20:10 Consumer Behavior and Economic Trends 25:47 Consumer Spending Trends and Market Shifts 30:12 Preparing for Uncertain Times 31:30 Savannah and The Origins of FDS 35:55 Diverse Opinions and Feminist Discourse 42:08 Navigating Relationships with Men and Women 52:21 The Backlash Against Women's Empowerment 58:57 The Consequences of Male Entitlement 01:00:24 Dealing With Men 01:27:49 The Intersection of Feminism and Class 01:30:50 Mailbag! Autism Diagnosis In Women 01:47:13 Poll Results
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth.
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Starter Wives

This week on The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen discuss the concept of "Starter Wives” - women who support their partners' growth and success, only to be left behind once those efforts bear fruit. They explore why women should prioritize their well being, seek equitable partnerships, and avoid being used as stepping stones.
In our Tea Time segment, we cover the latest political and social developments, including Elon Musk calling Senator Mark Kelly a "traitor," President Trump claiming that boycotting Tesla is "illegal," and the U.S. administration's attempt to deport a Gaza protest leader. The hosts also share a voice note from a Patreon Tea VIP member.
Later in the episode, they dive into the financial and emotional burden placed on women in relationships, the power dynamics at play, and the importance of breaking free from traditional romance tropes. The conversation ends with a discussion on financial independence, prenups, and ensuring women’s contributions are valued in relationships.
 
🎧 This episode emphasizes the importance of centering oneself in relationships and recognizing the systemic issues that disadvantage women.🎙️ Topics Discussed:
What it means to be a "Starter Wife" and its emotional impact
The hidden costs of building a man up
Why men often want to be seen as self-made
How invisible labor in relationships leaves women undervalued
Why prenups should protect women's contributions
The financial and emotional burdens women carry in relationships
The importance of self-love and prioritizing personal success
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: 
Elon Musk calls Sen. Mark Kelly a 'traitor'Trump showcases a Tesla at the White HouseUS court blocks deportation of Gaza protest leaderTrump calls Tesla boycott ‘illegal’Study: This car brand has the highest fatal crash rateConservatives upset over new tariffsSam Seder debates 20 Trump supportersDr. Umar responds to "Deadbeat Father" claimsJohn Cena made Nikki Bella sign a 75-page contract before moving in
 
📚 This Week's Recommendations:
🎥 Men Value Three Things In Women🎥 Don’t Be Barbara The Builder
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome & Tea Time!01:22 – Musk Calls Senator Kelly A "Traitor"03:05 – Trump Shills Tesla On White House Driveway06:37 – Trump Tries To Deport Gaza Protest Leader08:02 – Boycotting Tesla: Illegal?12:50 – Conservatives Mad About New Tariffs19:50 – Dr. Umar Responds To “Deadbeat Father” Claims23:46 – Patreon Tea VIP: Community & Solidarity Among Women37:35 – Starter Wives: The Dangers of Building a Man Up46:19 – Transactional Relationships & Gender Expectations58:41 – Prenups & Protecting Women’s Interests01:03:28 – Empowering Women: Redefining Relationships01:08:13 – The Historical Context of Gender Dynamics01:10:33 – The Burden of Financial Support01:18:00 – Mailbag: Deprogramming from Romance Tropes
 
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth.
 
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Pretty Privilege

This week on The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen take on the concept of Pretty Privilege, dissecting its societal implications, especially for women. They explore how appearance influences treatment in different social contexts, the pros and cons of Pretty Privilege, and the pressures that come with it.
 
But first, in our Tea Time segment, they break down the latest political and global developments, including the Trump/Zelenskyy meeting in the Oval Office, escalating U.S.-China trade tensions, Trump’s new tariffs on Canada and Mexico, and a look at Israel’s universal healthcare and education system. They also discuss the impact of the agricultural industry, Black owned businesses, and examine why young girls are starting puberty earlier than ever.
 
Later, we debut our brand new segment: Feminist Herstory, spotlighting remarkable women whose contributions have shaped the future. This week, we honor Hedy Lamarr, a woman whose beauty often overshadowed her groundbreaking technological innovations, shedding light on the broader theme of women’s achievements being overlooked due to societal biases.
 
🎧 This episode challenges perceptions of beauty, encourages self-worth beyond appearance, and highlights the importance of recognizing women’s contributions throughout history.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The reality of Pretty Privilege and its impact on social interactions
The double-edged sword of being perceived as conventionally attractive
Societal pressures placed on women to maintain their appearance
How Pretty Privilege influences career opportunities and relationships
The connection between beauty, power, and manipulation
The psychological toll of being judged by appearance
Men’s role in reinforcing beauty standards
The political landscape and its effects on women’s rights
Hedy Lamarr’s contributions to technology and why she was overlooked
Why women should prioritize self-worth over external validation
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Trump-Zelenskyy meeting and Republican reactions
China bans exports of critical minerals to U.S.
Taiwan’s booming semiconductor industry and China’s response
Israel’s universal healthcare system
Round Up Weed Killer Is Showing Up In Air And Water
Girls are starting puberty earlier—what parents should know
Toxic chemicals found in tampons
Trump’s tariffs on Canada and Mexico shake markets
Hedy Lamarr - An Austrian-American actress and inventor who pioneered the tech that would one day form the basis for today’s WiFi, GPS, and Bluetooth communication systems
 
📚 Lisa's Recommendation:
They Cloned Tyrone
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome and Tea Time! 01:55 – Trump/Zelenskyy Meeting05:15 – US/China Trade Tensions Escalate Over Mineral Export Ban10:40 – Israel's Universal Healthcare and Education16:30 – US Agriculture Situation20:56 - Make Sure "Black Owned" Businesses Are Really Black Owned23:17 - Trump's New Tariffs on Canada And Mexico24:30 – Understanding Pretty Privilege42:02 – The Illusion of Beauty and Its Consequences 49:53 – The Reality of Relationships and Insecurities 56:47 – Men's Opinion Of Your Beauty Doesn't Mean Anything01:00:30 – Feminist Herstory: Hedy Lamarr’s Legacy
 
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth.
 
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💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Siren Sound is not responsible for any statements made by the hosts or guests.

Decentering Marriage

This week, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen explore the concept of decentering marriage, delving into its historical context, societal implications, and the importance of redefining how you view marriage by prioritizing your own life and partnerships over traditional norms.
But first, in our Tea Time segment, they discuss the latest buzz in U.S. politics, including Trump declaring himself “King,” Elon Musk’s latest antics, the revelation that none of the mothers of his 13 known children can reach him, and RFK Jr.'s controversial past.
Later in our Mailbag segment, the hosts help a listener decide whether it’s time to move out of her current living situation, offering advice on navigating independence and personal growth.
🎧 This episode challenges societal norms, empowers listeners to redefine relationship goals, and encourages embracing independence and self-worth.
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The historical context of marriage as a tool for maintaining bloodlines.
Why marriage can be seen as DEI (Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion) for men.
The importance of seeking a partner, not just a provider.
How married men earn 11% more than single men.
Challenging societal norms that tie a woman’s worth to marriage.
Decentering men as a pathway to reclaiming power and identity.
The importance of friendship and community over traditional romantic relationships.
The value of partnerships that go beyond conventional marriage norms.
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Concepts of a plan to return 20% of DOGE savings to taxpayers
Trump receives backlash for calling himself ‘King’
Elon Musk’s 13 Children and Their Mothers
Elon Musk’s Babies Conceived Via IVF and Surrogacy
Elon Musk Tries to Skimp on Child Support
RFK Jr.’s Scandalous Past
While Elon Musk Was Chainsawing at CPAC, Grimes Pleaded for Help
American Propaganda During World War II
📚 Lisa's Recommendation:
Nervous by Jen Soriano
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🕰️ Episode Chapters:00:00 – Introductions and Tea Time!01:20 – Trump’s “Concepts” of Returning 20% of DOGE Savings06:22 – Elon Musk’s 13 Children and Their Mothers’ Struggles16:11 – Decentering Marriage: A New Perspective24:10 – The Role of Women in Modern Society38:47 – Partnership vs. Marriage: Redefining Relationships41:48 – Sovereign's Shoe Incident49:00 – Decentering Men: The Importance of Self-Reliance54:33 – Friendship vs. Relationships: The Importance of Sisterhood01:00:00 – Partnership Over Marriage: Redefining Relationships01:05:48 – Avoiding Desperation: The Key to Healthy Relationships01:08:08 – Mailbag: Should I Leave My Living Situation?01:19:19 – Poll Results!01:21:42 – Lisa's Recommendation: Nervous by Jen Soriano
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth.
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💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Siren Sound is not responsible for any statements made by the hosts or guests.

Not All Men? (feat.The Public Offender)

This week, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are thrilled to welcome special guest The Public Offender to the show! The Public Offender creates anti-misogynistic content, primarily on YouTube and TikTok.
But first, in our Tea Time segment, they cover the latest on the SAVE Act and its impact on women’s voting rights, the implications of DEI initiatives, and the proposed slashing of social security programs, which will affect all Americans.
During our main conversation with The Public Offender, the discussion shifts to the importance of engaging men in feminist conversations and the complexities of raising a son in a society rife with misogyny, emphasizing the importance of teaching critical thinking and empathy. The dialogue explores cultural differences in how men attack female independence, the dynamics of marriage among different racial groups, and the tactics used to pit women against each other.
In our Mailbag segment, The Public Offender joins the hosts in tackling a listener's question on how to deal with men who respond to criticisms of marriage, romance, or patriarchy with, “If you don’t like men, don’t be with them then!”
🎧 This episode dives deep into cultural dynamics, societal expectations, and the importance of fostering empathy—empowering listeners to navigate complex gender discussions with confidence.
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The SAVE Act’s impact on women’s voting rights.
How DEI initiatives are shaping societal change.
Proposed cuts to social security and their impact on Americans.
Engaging men in feminist dialogues for meaningful change.
Raising boys in a misogynistic culture.
Cultural differences in male reactions to female independence.
Marriage dynamics across racial groups.
The tactic of pitting women against each other.
The importance of teaching empathy and critical thinking to the next generation.
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Married Women Could Be Stopped From Voting Under SAVE Act
Why Beyoncé’s New Album Cover Art Spells Her Name ‘Beyincé
Elon Musk is on Track to Soon Become the World’s First Trillionaire
A ‘Ladies’ Night’ Lawsuit Sent a Family-Owned Restaurant Out of Business
📚 Public Offender’s Recommendations:
@bpg313 on TikTok
@fatalprose on TikTok
@expatriarch on TikTok
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🕰️ Episode Chapters:00:00 – Introduction and Tea Time!03:12 – The SAVE Act and its Impact on Women’s Voting Rights07:00 – Impact of DEI, Societal Changes, and New Legislation15:26 – Trump Administration's Agenda Will Negatively Affect All Americans20:07 – The Public Offender's Approach to Anti-Misogyny21:35 – Engaging Men in Feminist Conversations24:02 – The Dynamics of Male Reactions to Feminism34:06 – Raising Boys in a Misogynistic Culture39:15 – Cultural Differences in Male Attacks on Female Independence46:17 – Pitting Women Against Each Other: A Tactic of Control52:31 – Understanding Gold Diggers and Relationship Dynamics01:02:13 – Neurodivergence vs. Misogyny: Recognizing Excuses01:08:43 – Men's Reflection and Societal Expectations01:10:17 – Society’s Low Bar for Fathers01:19:50 – Mailbag: Men’s Attack on Married Women’s Critiques of Them01:38:36 – The Importance of Men Who Get It
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth.
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💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Siren Sound is not responsible for any statements made by the hosts or guests.

Porn Addiction In Men, Continued

This week, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen conclude their deep dive into the complex issues surrounding porn addiction in men, finishing their discussion on how to spot the signs of addiction.
But first, in our Tea Time segment, they cover the biggest headlines of the week, including Taylor Swift getting booed at the Super Bowl, Trump's reaction, and a disturbing case involving a violent crime against an elderly woman—exploring its broader connections to porn consumption and desensitization to violence.
In the main discussion, the conversation shifts to identifying red flags of porn addiction in men, emphasizing the importance of awareness for women’s safety. The episode highlights the consequences of unchecked addiction, focusing on the impact it has on relationships, self-control, and respect.
The hosts examine how societal norms shape the way men perceive women, discuss the dangers of fetishization, and explore the role capitalism plays in male loneliness. They also emphasize the importance of self-improvement, personal growth, and community support in healing from toxic relationships.
Finally, in the Mailbag segment, a listener shares her harrowing journey of navigating a relationship with a porn-addicted boyfriend.
🎧 This episode provides a deep dive into the intersection of addiction, misogyny, and relationships—offering insights to help women recognize warning signs and reclaim their power.
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
Why porn addiction is a growing issue young women must be aware of.
The direct link between porn consumption and misogyny.
How to identify signs of porn addiction early in a relationship.
The lack of self-control and discipline among men struggling with addiction.
The societal normalization of porn and its harmful effects on dating.
Why rehabilitation for sex offenders often fails.
How fetishization and objectification impact women in cultural contexts.
The connection between capitalism, male loneliness, and toxic dating dynamics.
Why self-improvement and personal accountability are crucial for healthy relationships.
How women can protect themselves from harmful relationship patterns.
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Taylor Swift brings in over $1 billion for the NFL even before the Super Bowl kick-offRead more
‘MAGA Is Unforgiving’: Trump Mocks Taylor Swift After Super Bowl BooingRead more
14-year-old neighbor assaults 91-year-old woman during break-inRead more
Serial Sexual Murderers and Prostitutes As Their VictimsRead more
No Human Involved DocumentaryWatch here
Woodstock 99: Peace, Love, and RageIMDb
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
Dr. Gail Dines – A leading voice on the impacts of pornography on society.
Dr. Gail Dines’ TED Talk: Growing Up in a Pornified Culture
Culture Reframed – An organization providing education on the harms of pornography.
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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction and Tea Time!01:30 – Eagles Win Super Bowl, Taylor Swift Boo'd04:31 – 14 Year Old Assaults Elderly Woman18:55 – Identifying Signs of Porn Addiction in Men39:58 – The Consequences of Porn Addiction in Relationships41:24 – Respect and Human Dignity44:43 – Objectification and Misogyny47:09 – Fetishization and Cultural Stereotypes50:26 – Sexual Terminology and Objectification51:50 – Swinging and Relationship Dynamics01:02:09 – The Impact of Porn on Relationships01:10:44 – Poll Results!01:14:37 – Mailbag: Dealing With Porn Addicted Boyfriend
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth.
For advertising or business inquiries, email info@sirensound.co
💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Siren Sound is not responsible for any statements made by the hosts or guests.

Porn Addiction In Men

This week, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen discuss the growing concern of porn addiction among men and its implications for modern dating. But first, in our Tea Time segment, they cover the latest headlines, including multiple plane crashes happening seemingly all at once, companies rolling back DEI policies, Kanye West and Bianca Censori's controversial Grammy red carpet appearance, and more. In our main discussion, we explore the signs of porn addiction, the impact it has on relationships, and the cultural shifts that have made this issue more prevalent. The conversation delves into the complexities of modern relationships, particularly focusing on how pornography influences men's expectations and the emotional struggles women face within these dynamics. In our Mailbag segment, we tackle the challenges of breaking up with a manipulative partner and why getting rid of a toxic man can be so difficult.
🎧 This episode unpacks the hidden impact of porn addiction on modern dating and empowers women to recognize red flags, set boundaries, and reclaim their agency.
🎙️ Topics Discussed
How the dating landscape has changed significantly due to porn addiction.
How women are often left to navigate the consequences of men's porn consumption.
The lack of research on how porn affects women’s experiences in dating.
How young women today face unprecedented challenges in dating due to men's exposure to porn.
Identifying signs of porn addiction can help women make informed relationship decisions.
The ways cultural norms around sexuality and relationships are shifting rapidly.
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
Porn Makes Men Terrible in Bed – by Emma Lindsay
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Visible fire forces passengers to deplane at Bush Intercontinental Airport
White House Press Secretary’s ‘Unconstitutional’ Claim Is Quickly Dismantled By Critics
The Shock Doctrine – Naomi Klein
Target Rolls Back DEI Policies
Costco keeps its DEI policies, which sparked a local "Buy-Cott" movement
Costco’s Co-Founder Told The Company's CEO He'd Kill Him If He Raised The Price Of The Chain's Hot Dogs
Costco Raises Pay To Over $30 An Hour For Non-Union Employees
Beyoncé wins album of the year Grammy for Cowboy Carter
White House mocks Selena Gomez over tearful video about ICE raids
Kanye West & Bianca Censori Grammy’s Controversy
Kanye West Wasn't Kicked Out of 2025 Grammys — but There Was Also No Seat for Him Inside the Show
Kanye West, Bianca Censori Reportedly Banned by Venetian Water Taxi Company After Indecent Exposure on Boat
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🕰️ Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome and Tea Time!
02:48 – Another plane mishap
04:32 – The Shock Doctrine
06:00 – DEI Rollbacks
10:51 – Beyonce Wins Album Of The Year
11:29 – White House Mocks Selena Gomez
14:00 – Kanye West & Bianca Censori Red Carpet Controversy
22:31 – Signs of Porn Addiction in Men
42:30 – The Impact of Pornography on Expectations
46:12 – Understanding Men's Sexual Behavior
01:07:18 – Mailbag: The Struggles of Breaking Up
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. For advertising opportunities or business inquiries, email us at info@sirensound.co
The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views or positions of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Siren Sound is not responsible for any statements made by the hosts or guests.

Internalized Misogyny feat. BurbNBougie

This week, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest BurbNBougie to break down internalized misogyny and how it shapes women’s perceptions of themselves and each other. But first, in our opening Tea Time segment, the hosts dive into the latest headlines, including Elon Musk’s reported feud with Trump, the rise of Deep Seek AI, and a new bill proposing a third term for Trump.
In the main discussion, the hosts unpack the pervasive issue of “pick-me” behavior and its impact on women’s relationships, self worth, and cultural expectations. They explore societal conditioning, the role of women as resources in relationships, and the effects of parenting on gender dynamics. The conversation also highlights how women can work toward dismantling these harmful narratives.
Finally, in our mailbag segment, we discuss how to advocate for yourself in the medical system, an update from a past listener, and navigating casual dating without centering men.
🎧 This episode challenges deep seated societal norms and encourages women to embrace solidarity, self worth, and empowerment.
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The roots of internalized misogyny and “pick-me” culture
How society conditions women to see each other as competition
Women as resources in relationships and the impact of gendered expectations
Parenting’s role in shaping boys’ attitudes toward women
Cultural perceptions of red lipstick and self-expression
The importance of women supporting each other instead of competing
Listener questions on medical advocacy, breakups, and dating without centering men
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Trump reportedly 'kicks Elon out' of the West Wing
JD Vance says Big Tech has "too much power"
Chinese A.I. app shakes up Silicon Valley, causing Wall Street selloff
The Dead Internet Theory
Constitutional amendment to allow Trump third term introduced in the House
TikTok Creator Breakdown of Mothers & Sons
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
Phyllis Chesler - Author
Women and Madness
Woman’s Inhumanity to Woman
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🕰️ Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction and Tea Time!05:03 – Elon denied office space in the White House10:08 – Deep Seek AI12:46 – Welcome BurbNBougie!18:03 – Understanding Internalized Misogyny34:03 – Cultural Reflections and Personal Experiences35:28 – Red Lipstick and Cultural Perceptions39:18 – Women as Resources in Relationships41:42 – The Pick-Me Mentality and Internalized Misogyny46:40 – Reforming the Pick-Me Perspective51:54 – Experiences of Women in Male-Dominated Spaces58:08 – The Impact of Parenting on Gender Dynamics01:10:32 – Raising Respectful Men01:15:15 – Mailbag: Poll Results01:17:40 – Mailbag: Medical Trauma and Advocacy01:24:46 – Mailbag: Breakup and Empowerment01:26:50 – Mailbag: Casual Sex and Self-Discovery
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. For advertising opportunities or business inquiries, email us at info@sirensound.co

Empowerment vs Liberation

This week your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen tackle the nuanced differences between empowerment and liberation within feminism. But first, in the opening Tea Time segment, they dive into recent headlines, including Elon Musk's controversial gesture at Trump’s inauguration, the rise of the Red Note app fostering conversations between Americans and Chinese citizens, and a tragic story from the NYC subway that raises questions about systemic injustice.
In the main discussion, the hosts explore how empowerment and liberation differ in theory and practice, using characters from Sex and the City like Carrie and Charlotte as cultural examples. They critique how media portrays women, highlighting the significance of financial independence, accountability, and the ongoing fight against patriarchal structures. The conversation also examines the intersectionality of race in feminist movements, white privilege, and the unique challenges faced by women from diverse backgrounds.
In the debut of the “Sovereign’s Sermon” segment, the discussion shifts to modern relationships, emphasizing empowerment, accountability, and the importance of women advocating for their needs. The episode wraps up with actionable advice for navigating dating in today’s world.
🎧 This episode unpacks the complexities of feminism, empowerment, and liberation while inspiring listeners to think critically and advocate for their values.
🎙️ Topics Discussed Include:
Elon Musk’s controversial moment at Trump’s inauguration.
Cultural bridges: Red Note app and conversations with Chinese citizens.
Empowerment vs. liberation in feminism—what’s the difference?
Media portrayals of women and their impact on cultural perceptions.
Financial independence as a cornerstone of true liberation.
The role of race and intersectionality in feminist movements.
Sovereign’s Sermon: Empowerment, accountability, and advocacy in relationships.
Tips for modern dating and self-advocacy.
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Elon Musk Gives Nazi Salute At Trump Inauguration
‘TikTok Refugees’ Open Dialog With Chinese Citizens
The 14 Characteristics of Fascism
From Backing a Ban to Being Hailed as a Savior: Inside Trump’s TikTok Shift
What to Know About the Death of a Woman Who Was Set on Fire in a New York City Subway Train
Between Two Worlds: Black Women and the Fight for Voting Rights
Divorced Men Vote Trump (h/t to Listener Deborah Kerr)
The 1975 Icelandic Women’s Strike
Sovereign’s Sermon link - Women Have Final Say!
📚 Gwen’s Recommendation:The Tea App - Safe Dating for WomenGoogle Play: The Tea App
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🕰️ Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Tea Time!02:02 Elon Musk's Salute05:20 Cultural Comparisons: America vs. China on Red Note09:54 Fascism and Political Characteristics15:23 Social Media, TikTok and Censorship25:40 Empowerment vs. Liberation in Feminism32:39 Sex & The City Comparisons34:21 Charlotte's Choices and Relationships41:36 The Role of Women in Capitalism43:41 Male Liberation vs. Female Empowerment45:57 The Reality of Women's Safety49:41 The Intersection of Feminism and Race55:40 The Historical Context of Feminism01:01:15 The Future of Feminism and Women's Rights01:03:43 The Power of Collective Action01:12:52 Understanding White Privilege01:17:20 Sovereign's Sermon: Accountability in Relationships
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executive produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. For advertising opportunities or business inquires, email us at info@sirensound.co