Bad Dating Advice (feat. Fleeksie)

n this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest Fleeksie to break down the toxic dating advice being pushed on women by male dating coaches. But first, in Tea Time, we dive into the rumors of Jeff Bezos buying Vogue for his wife, the alarming rise of Gen Z falling for online scams, and why older women dating younger men are reporting more satisfaction.

Then, in our main discussion, we explore the world of male dating coaches like Matthew Hussey, the false promises of “fixing yourself” to land a man, and why centering men in dating will always lead women back to patriarchy. Lastly, we wrap up with a discussion of the film Sinners, examining its themes of race, culture, and power in America’s modern South.

 

🎧 This episode is your reminder: never lower your standards, trust your instincts, and stop letting men sell you nonsense about how to find love.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

• The danger of bad dating advice from male coaches
• Why Matthew Hussey’s advice fails women
• Women should protect their standards and safety
• The performative nature of dating culture
• The cultural commentary of the film Sinners

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Jeff Bezos Reportedly Buying Vogue as Lauren Sanchez’s Wedding Gift
https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/articles/jeff-bezos-reportedly-buying-vogue-163357225.html

Anna Wintour steps down as Vogue editor-in-chief
https://www.cnn.com/2025/06/26/style/anna-wintour-steps-down-vogue-editor-in-chief

You’ll own nothing and be happy
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/You%27ll_own_nothing_and_be_happy

YouTube Clarifies Changes to Monetization Rules Around Inauthentic Content
https://finance.yahoo.com/news/youtube-clarifies-changes-monetization-rules-194232823.html

Why Gen Z Is Surprisingly Susceptible to Financial Scams
https://time.com/6802011/gen-z-financial-scams-fraud/

Why Older Women Dating Younger Men Are More Satisfied
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202303/older-women-who-date-younger-men-are-more-satisfied

 

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
How ‘Sinners’ Rewrites the Gothic South
https://msmagazine.com/2025/05/08/sinners-feminist-film-review-black-women-history-power-south/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Cultural Consumption and Black Resistance in “Sinners”
https://mayokmedia.com/bloodlines-and-blues-cultural-consumption-and-black-resistance-in-sinners-2025/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!
01:37 Jeff Bezos Buying Vogue?
05:41 AI Degrades Multimedia
07:41 YouTube's Demonitizing AI Slop
15:20 You'll Own Nothing And Love It?
17:16 Gen Z Susceptible To Online Scams?
18:45 Older Women Dating Younger Men?
21:57 Welcome Fleeksie!
23:34 Bad Dating Advice from Male Coaches
25:11 Matthew Hussey's Bad Advice
43:51 The Dangers of Lowering Standards
01:02:34 Dating Coaches Improving Their Grift
01:20:27 Film Review: Sinners
01:48:04 Poll Results: AI Girlfriends

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth.

 

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