Nice Guys (feat. Regan of F The Nice Guy)

This Week on The Audaci-Tea Podcast, Lisa and Sovereign are joined by special guest Regan, host of the F The Nice Guy podcast, for a deep dive into the so called “Nice Guy” archetype for a discussion on how it shows up, why it’s problematic, and how it can be dangerous for women.

But first, in our Tea Time segment, Lisa and Sovereign talk about the “Hands Off” protests, economic tensions from Trump era tariffs, rage baiters getting their comeuppance, and more.

In the main discussion, Regan unpacks the myth of the “friend zone,” women’s emotional intelligence, how societal pressures shape women’s experiences, and the unspoken expectations often hiding behind “nice” behavior from men.

Finally, in our Feminist Herstory segment, we shine a spotlight on NASA’s “Hidden Figures” - Katherine Goble Johnson, Dorothy Vaughan, and Mary Jackson, whose groundbreaking work during the Space Race remained unrecognized for decades.

 

🎧 This episode exposes the hidden dangers behind so-called “Nice Guys,” unpacking how their entitlement and unspoken expectations can harm women.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

• The “friend zone” is a construct rooted in male entitlement.
• So-called "Nice Guys" often use kindness as a tool for manipulation.
• Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, due to societal conditioning and survival needs.
• Rejection is not oppression—many men struggle to accept boundaries.
• Women’s intuition is a crucial safety tool, especially in relationships.
• The contributions of Black women in history are frequently overlooked.
• Social media has accelerated women's collective awareness and solidarity.

 

✨ Links & Resources:

• Pro-life activist assaulted during interview
• Tariffs & Recession Fears (NPR)
• Examples of God personally killing people (RationalWiki)
• “Hands Off!” Protest Coverage (NPR)
• Trump Signals Musk Might Be Out (Politico)

 

📚 This Week's Recommendation:

F The Nice Guy Podcast

• TikTok
• YouTube

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:

00:00 Welcome and Tea Time
03:22 Pro-Life Activist Assaulted
08:55 “Hands Off” Protests
16:45 Nice Guys: Understanding the Manipulation
20:25 The Danger of Conditional Kindness
24:35 Real-Life Experiences with Nice Guys
28:21 The Nice Guy Syndrome
36:08 The Friend Zone Dilemma
58:53 Internalized Misogyny & Matchmaking
01:08:00 The Impact of Oppression on Women
01:15:30 The Illusion of Chivalry
01:21:10 Women's Awareness & Social Media
01:33:30 Feminist Herstory: Hidden Figures
01:45:24 Poll Results: Pick Me Friends

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth.

 

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