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Decoding 'Manspeak': Unpacking Red Pill Language

Have you ever heard a man drop some bizarre terminology when talking about women? Words that sound more like a conspiracy than a conversation? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign break down the language of the “Red Pill” and decode the toxic phrases that reveal insecurity, misogyny, and control. They unpack where this manspeak comes from, why it’s dangerous, and how women can recognize the red flags early.
But first, in Tea Time, they get into Jimmy Kimmel’s cancellation controversy, Cardi B’s pregnancy announcement, and the latest rapture conspiracy making the rounds online. Later, in Mailbag, they answer a listener’s question: can men and women really be just friends if attraction is in the mix?
 
🎧 This episode is all about recognizing the hidden meanings in Red Pill language, reclaiming confidence in conversations with men, and raising sons who reject misogynistic scripts.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
What “Red Pill” terminology really means
Misogyny hidden in everyday language
How to respond to manspeak and red flag phrases
Emotional intelligence as a tool for raising better sons
Why women should center their own goals and independence
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:Jimmy Kimmel Returns To Airhttps://www.npr.org/2025/09/24/nx-s1-5551277/jimmy-kimmel-live-abc-back-on-air-glen-powell-fcc-trump
Cardi B Is Pregnanthttps://www.vogue.com/article/cardi-b-is-pregnant-stefon-diggs
The Rapture Is Coming?https://www.iflscience.com/how-is-the-world-is-going-to-end-tomorrow-according-to-conspiracy-theorists-80898
A Third of Male University Students Say They Would Rape a Woman if There Were No Consequenceshttps://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/a-third-of-male-university-students-say-they-would-rape-a-woman-if-there-no-were-no-consequences-9978052.html
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:Read Lisa's Blog On Decoding Manspeakhttps://www.patreon.com/posts/reading-tea-blog-139748719Reverse Red-Pill Your Sons In Advancehttps://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMdvDXQ8/
Adolescencehttps://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMdvDXQ8/
The Will To Change by Bell Hookshttps://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-will-to-change-bell-hooks/1100306349
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!02:44 Jimmy Kimmel and Cancel Culture08:17 Cardi B’s New Album and Personal Life13:12 Rapture Tok and Religious Psychosis22:42 Intro To Red Pill Terminology31:07 Debunking Misconceptions About Masculinity38:50 Dehumanization and Misogyny in Language50:02 Emotional Intelligence and Logic01:12:54 Raising Emotionally Intelligent Boys01:18:24 Mailbag: Can Men and Women Be Platonic Friends?01:40:14 Poll Results: Being Hot & Having Fun
 
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.
 
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Why Women Lose Themselves In Relationships

Have you ever felt like you're losing a piece of yourself in a relationship? Like the 'you' before your partner slowly fades away? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign are diving deep into why so many women find themselves in this exact situation, exploring the subtle shifts and societal pressures that lead to a diminished sense of self when partnered. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss the latest NBC poll revealing Gen Z’s gender divide on what success means, Epstein’s infamous birthday book, and the heartbreaking story of an elderly man scammed by Meta’s flirty AI chatbot. Later, the hosts debut a brand new game called Therapy or the Void, putting characters of Sex and the City to the ultimate test.
 
🎧 This episode is all about recognizing the patterns that erase women’s individuality and finding the tools to prioritize independence, self-worth, and authenticity in relationships.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
Why women minimize themselves to fit societal expectations
Sacrificing dreams and identity for partners
Media’s role in romanticizing unhealthy relationships
Gen Z’s gender divide on defining success
How women can reclaim independence and self-worth
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:NBC Poll: Gender Divide Among Gen Z on Defined Successhttps://www.nbcnews.com/video/shorts/nbc-poll-finds-big-gender-divide-among-gen-z-247116357733
Epstein’s Birthday Bookhttps://www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/see-epsteins-full-birthday-book-with-alleged-personal-messages-from-trump-clinton-and-others
Meta’s Flirty AI Chatbot Invited a Retiree to New York. He Never Made It Homehttps://www.reuters.com/investigates/special-report/meta-ai-chatbot-death/
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
Stop Waiting For Your Hypothetical Husband
https://youtu.be/6CiOm04JNVc?si=J55QZuGauIuIB0NsUntamed by Glennon Doylehttps://www.amazon.com/Untamed-Glennon-Doyle-Melton/dp/1984801252
Women Who Run With The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estéshttps://tinyurl.com/3ncrc22k
Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimeshttps://www.mahoganybooks.com/9781476777092?searchid=0&search_query=The+year+of+yes
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome & Tea Time!04:17 Gen Z Gender Divide on Success11:33 Epstein’s Birthday Book15:36 Elderly Man Dies Trying To Cheat With Chatbot22:46 Why Women Lose Themselves in Relationships
31:10 Reframing Women's Roles and Personal Success
43:55 The Career-Driven Woman
48:00 Sacrificing for Others: The Patriarchal Script
54:49 The Impact of Gender Expectations
01:03:09 Living Life on Your Own Terms
01:10:11 Therapy Or The Void: Sex & The City
01:33:14 Poll Results: Passport Bros
 
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Being Hot & Having Fun w/Amber Akilla

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest Amber Akilla! Amber is a DJ, online personality, and unapologetic advocate of living authentically. In this epsiode, Amber shares her philosophy of being hot and having fun, centering confidence, independence, and self-acceptance as tools for empowerment.
But first, in Tea Time, the hosts break down Judge Judy’s advice that women should always have their own money, Ciara adding Russell Wilson’s last name to Future Jr, how men are currently ruining nightlife, and Druski’s viral NASCAR appearance. In Mailbag, they respond to a listener navigating men’s expectations of women in public conversations.
 
🎧 This episode is all about embracing joy, confidence, and authenticity, and how women can decenter the male gaze to build lives filled with fun, creativity, and power.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
Amber Akilla’s philosophy of being hot and having fun
Why women should always keep financial independence
Nightlife and how male behavior changes women’s experiences
Exercise, movement, and dance as self-care beyond weight loss
Decentering men and embracing authentic confidence
Living authentically and learning from failure
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:Ciara Adds Russell Wilson’s Last Name to Sonhttps://www.vibe.com/news/entertainment/ciara-added-wilson-to-son-futures-last-name-years-ago-1235106568/
Men Are Ruining Nightlife!https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT6nkywHc/
Druski Goes Viralhttps://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/celebrity/articles/druski-faces-backlash-whiteface-nascar-183429728.html
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:FREE EBOOK: The Shopping List Your Mother Owes You by Mide Yussuffhttps://dunnmade.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/the-list-your-mother-owes-you-by-mide-yussuff-1-flat-1.pdf
 
Beauty Fades, Dumb Is Forever: The Making of a Happy Woman by Judy Sheindlinhttps://a.co/d/caB4MIz
 
Follow Amber!@AmberAkilla everywhere
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!03:09 Judge Judy’s Advice For Women08:34 Ciara Changes Son’s Last Name13:42 Men Are Ruining Nightlife!22:26 Druski’s Whiteface at NASCAR24:47 Welcome Amber Akilla!27:30 Amber’s Journey and Philosophy31:04 Defining Being Hot and Having Fun41:30 Movement and Exercise as Self-Care52:20 The Balance of Consumption and Contribution01:00:59 Living Authentically: Advice for Young Women01:10:16 Decentering Men, Self-Perception and Confidence01:17:28 Embracing Failure and the Journey01:24:54 Mailbag: Forced Politeness In Shared Spaces01:36:30 Poll Results: The "Manosphere" Algorithms
 
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Passport Bros Exposed: Western Men Exploiting Women Abroad

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen expose the dark underbelly of the “Passport Bros” movement, where Western men travel abroad seeking relationships with women in countries that often have less gender equality and opportunity. From exploitation disguised as romance to the illusions of “traditional” femininity, the hosts unpack how patriarchy and colonial fantasies intersect in this disturbing trend. But first, in Tea Time, they celebrate Gwen turning 30, react to a Seaworld mime trolling husbands who won’t carry their wives’ bags, and debate a viral claim that women fought to go 50-50 in relationships. In Feminist Herstory, they spotlight Giulia Tofana, one of history’s most infamous poisoners, and what her story reveals about women’s fight for autonomy in oppressive systems.
 
🎧 This episode calls out how men flee accountability at home only to recreate cycles of exploitation abroad — and why feminism’s fight against gender inequality is global.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
Why “Passport Bros” exploit global power imbalances
The link between sex tourism and gender inequality
How men project insecurities and seek control in relationships
Why financial independence is crucial for women everywhere
Feminist Herstory: Giulia Tofana and resistance against patriarchy
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:Mime At Seaworld Keeps Shaming Husbands To Carry Their Baby’s and Backpacks Instead Of Their Wiveshttps://www.instagram.com/reel/DNX9pHpgiGD/
Deadly trend of ‘Passport Bros’ lured by honeytraps and murdered for cashhttps://www.thesun.co.uk/news/30671055/deadly-passport-bros-traps-murdered-cash-drug-kill-men/
Đổi Mớihttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Đổi_Mới
‘The White Lotus’ Is Reigniting The Conversation Around ‘Passport Bros’https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a64387699/what-is-a-passport-bro/
Mail Order Brideshttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mail-order_bride
Cyntoia Brown Released After 15 Years In Prison For Murderhttps://www.npr.org/2019/08/07/749025458/cyntoia-brown-released-after-15-years-in-prison-for-murder
Giulia Tofanahttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Giulia_Tofana
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:Dr. Potter - Stand with a Surgeon Facing Retaliationhttps://www.gofundme.com/f/stand-with-a-surgeon-facing-retaliation
The Passport Bros Subreddithttps://www.reddit.com/r/thepassportbros/
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!05:15 Gwen Turns 30!14:04 Mime Trolls Dads at Seaworld19:02 Should Feminists Go 50-50?29:22 Passport Bros43:04 Anything But Personal Responsibility52:12 The Mail Order Bride Phenomenon56:15 The Dark Side of Passport Bros01:12:18 Feminist Herstory: Giulia Tofana01:30:49 Poll Results: The Motherhood Trap
 
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The "Manosphere": Algorithmic Rabbit Holes For Young Men

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign pull back the curtain on the “Manosphere”, the digital rabbit hole pulling young men into misogyny through algorithm driven feeds. From TikTok trends to YouTube pipelines, they explore how social media is shaping worldviews and fueling a growing crisis in how boys and men see women, relationships, and themselves.
But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss viral clips about women in male dominated fields, Offset blaming his failed marriage on Cardi B not cooking, and Kevin Hart’s ill fated race against an ex NFL player that landed him in a wheelchair. In the Mailbag, they respond to a therapist telling her client that patriarchy “doesn’t exist anymore.”
 
🎧 This episode unpacks the algorithmic mechanics of radicalization, the rise of online misogyny, and what it means for the next generation.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
How social media algorithms funnel boys toward misogynistic content
The manosphere’s impact on relationships and gender expectations
The role of resilience and socialization in women’s survival strategies
Radicalization of young men online versus women’s experiences of propaganda
Why feminism is still seen as a threat, and how to respond to denial of patriarchy
The importance of women maintaining financial and personal agency
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:Women In Men’s Fields by MichellesPublicDiaryhttps://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT6qtafTY/
The Internet Is Absolutely Roasting Offset For Blaming His Failed Marriage On Cardi B Not Cookinghttps://www.buzzfeed.com/mychalthompson/offset-cardi-b-not-cooking-lyrics-backlash
Kevin Hart challenged an ex NFL player to a race, ended up tearing his lower abdomen and is in a wheel chair nowhttps://www.aol.com/dumbest-man-alive-smith-dwayne-085306255.html
The Dad Is Totally To Blame For The Half Marathon Mom “Ignoring” Her Kidshttps://www.scarymommy.com/parenting/mom-ignores-kids-marathon-tiktok
Social media algorithms ‘amplifying misogynistic content’https://www.theguardian.com/media/2024/feb/06/social-media-algorithms-amplifying-misogynistic-content
Girls are developmentally equivalent to boys who are 4 to 6 weeks younger in developmental termshttps://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1119278/
We unleashed Facebook and Instagram’s algorithms on blank accounts. They served up sexism and misogynyhttps://www.theguardian.com/technology/article/2024/jul/21/we-unleashed-facebook-and-instagrams-algorithms-on-blank-accounts-they-served-up-sexism-and-misogyny
How algorithms, alpha males and tradwives are winning the war for kids’ mindshttps://19thnews.org/2025/06/internet-culture-algorithms-alpha-males-tradwives/
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:'It stains your brain': How social media algorithms show violence to boyshttps://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c4gdqzxypdzo
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!02:50 Women in Male-Dominated Fields10:20 Offset Complains Cardi B Didn't Cook21:31 Kevin Hart In Wheelchair After Race32:25 The "Manosphere": Algorithmic Rabbit Holes For Young Men38:39 The Intersection of Biology and Socialization45:07 Ego Death and Resilience in Women55:03 Radicalization and the Influence of Social Media01:23:22 Mailbag Segment: Patriarchy Doesn't Exist?01:39:12 Poll Results: The Rise Of Conservatism
 
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.
 
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The Motherhood Trap: Are Women Sold A Lie?

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen  ask the question, "Is motherhood a choice, or is it a trap we're all expected to fall into?" For generations, society has pushed a narrative about women’s ultimate purpose. But what if that narrative isn’t just outdated, but actively harmful? This episode unpacks the uncomfortable truth about the “choice” to be a mother.
But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss a new Chinese pregnancy robot expected to give birth by next year, how Medicaid cuts will impact the elderly, and Trump’s military takeover of Washington D.C. To close things out, they review the film Hidden Figures and dive into what was fact, what was fiction, and what Hollywood left out.
 
🎧 This episode explores how cultural expectations around motherhood shape women’s choices, identities, and freedoms.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The pressure women face from family, culture, and media to become mothers
The myth of the “biological clock” and baby fever
Child-free women navigating stigma and judgment
The propaganda of parenthood and glamorization of motherhood
Eldest daughter syndrome and the hidden burdens of parentification
Workplace and systemic challenges faced by mothers
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:Medicaid Cuts Will Devastate Nursing Home Residentshttps://medicareadvocacy.org/issue-brief-medicaid-cuts-will-devastate-nursing-home-residents/
Hospital Layoffs Escalate—Impact Spreads from Support Staff to Nurseshttps://nurse.org/news/hospital-nurse-layoffs-us-healthcare-trends/#:~:text=Hospitals%20and%20long%2Dterm%20care,changes%20in%20federal%20reimbursement%20rates.
Marriage age in the United Stateshttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_age_in_the_United_States
Who Is Legally Responsible For Elderly Parents? Filial responsibility lawshttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Filial_responsibility_laws
Trump Takes Over Washington D.C. with National Guardhttps://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cvgv1pmypdyo
20 officers came to arrest man charged with throwing sandwich at a police officer in DChttps://www.cnn.com/2025/08/13/politics/man-sandwich-dc-felony-charged
'Pregnancy robot' that will give birth to live baby expected to be released next yearhttps://www.ladbible.com/news/technology/china-artificial-womb-pregnancy-robot-702891-20250818
The Myth of the Biological Clockhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/a-marriage-of-equals/201906/the-myth-of-the-biological-clock
The Flo period-tracking app sold user data to Meta and Googlehttps://www.theverge.com/news/753469/meta-flo-period-tracker-lawsuit-verdict
Federal Jury Convicts Former Reality Television Personality for Downloading and Possessing Child Sexual Abuse Materialhttps://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/pr/federal-jury-convicts-former-reality-television-personality-downloading-and-possessing-child
Eldest Daughter Syndrome: What It Is And 12 Signs To Look For, According To Expertshttps://tinyurl.com/nb9v3bj9
The Matilda Effect (Men Stealing Credit From Women’s Inventions and Accomplishments)https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matilda_effect
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:Kelley Daring TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@kelleydaringRegretful Parents Reddit – https://www.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/Fence Sitter Reddit – https://www.reddit.com/r/Fencesitter/
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!02:20 Medicare Cuts and Their Impact08:27 DC Takeover and Political Tensions13:47 Pregnancy Robots23:29 Baby Propaganda29:10 Debunking Baby Fever and Biological Clocks31:47 Religious and Political Influences on Motherhood34:57 The Mommy Algorithm On Social Media43:20 The Myths of Motherhood and Personal Fulfillment57:59 The Struggles of Regretful Parents01:04:55 The Propaganda of Parenthood01:14:01 Eldest Daughter Syndrome and Parentification01:18:20 Concerns About Population and Resources01:21:07 Film Review: Hidden Figures01:37:15 Poll Results: Men's Mental Health Crisis?
 
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.
 
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"Unruly Women" & The Rise Of Conservatism (feat. Bimbo University)

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest Nikita, also known as "Bimbo University" online. Nikita helps unpack the recent rise of conservatism and its attempts to subjugate women and roll back hard-won rights.
But first, in Tea Time, the hosts dive into Halle Berry's ex-husband's latest comments about their divorce, a new male birth control pill, and the Kids Online Safety Act. In the closing Mailbag segment, they respond to a listener asking how to spot performative "feminist" men in the dating pool.
 
🎧 This episode takes a hard look at how the conservative right is becoming more mainstream at the expense of women’s liberation and what women can do to stay empowered.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The rise of conservatism and its impact on women's rights
Performative feminism and uneven expectations in relationships
Male birth control advancements and reproductive responsibility
Cultural and religious influences on gender dynamics
Financial independence and empowerment for women
How to identify genuine versus performative feminist allies
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Fans Defend Halle Berry After Ex Reveals He Divorced Her Because She Didn't 'Cook or Clean’https://tinyurl.com/s6zbmamx
Side-effect-free male contraceptive pill achieves milestone in its human trialhttps://newatlas.com/society-health/male-contraceptive-pill/
US-funded contraceptives for poor nations to be burned in France, sources sayhttps://www.reuters.com/legal/litigation/us-funded-contraceptives-poor-nations-be-burned-france-sources-say-2025-07-24/
Kids Online Safety Acthttps://www.congress.gov/bill/119th-congress/senate-bill/1748/text#toc-iddab2bfcc-2bf2-4548-87dd-edd2cff4c0ec
Gov. Website ‘Glitch’ Removes Trumps Least Favorite Part Of Constitutionhttps://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-features/trump-least-favorite-part-constitution-deleted-1235401874/
Smithsonian removes references to Trump's impeachments from 'Limits of Presidential Power' exhibithttps://abcnews.go.com/US/smithsonian-removes-references-trumps-impeachments-limits-presidential-power/story?id=124271509
From 2011 - Pizza is a vegetable? Congress says yeshttps://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/pizza-vegetable-congress-says-yes-flna1c9453097
The Christian nationalist pastor with ties to Defense Secretary Pete Hegsethhttps://www.cnn.com/2025/08/08/politics/video/christian-nationalist-doug-wilson-pam-brown-digvid
The Current US National Debt is $36.8 Trillionhttps://www.justfacts.com/nationaldebt.asp#:~:text=36.8
Trump could bail out private equity companies by letting them loot your retirement planhttps://www.levernews.com/your-401-k-is-billionaires-next-bailout-scheme/
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:Follow Bimbo University!https://linktr.ee/nikitadumptruck
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!01:43 Halle Berry's Ex-Husband08:00 Male Birth Control Pill16:11 Children's Safety and Education23:24 Welcome Nikita aka Bimbo University25:33 The Rise of Conservatism: Historical Context35:28 The Intersection of Religion and Conservatism48:17 Economic Policies and Their Impact on Society01:07:52 Mailbag: Spotting Performative Feminism01:26:50 Poll Results: Pick-Me Dating Advice
 
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Men's Mental Health Crisis?

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen take on the conversation around men’s mental health and how outdated expectations of masculinity contribute to loneliness, isolation, and emotional underdevelopment. They unpack how this crisis impacts women too, from the extra emotional labor placed on them to the ways male disengagement shapes modern relationships. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts dive into the drop in U.S. birthrates, Ashanti calling out Nelly for sleeping through their baby’s cries, and a Patreon VIP voicemail exploring why women are so drawn to true crime. Then, in the Mailbag, they respond to a listener navigating a misogynistic and racist workplace.
 
🎧 This episode examines how conversations about men’s struggles often leave women carrying the burden, and why dismantling outdated gender scripts is essential for everyone’s well-being.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
How outdated masculinity fuels the male loneliness epidemic
The emotional labor burden on women in men’s mental health conversations
Pornography’s link to men’s mental health struggles
The role of patriarchy in male isolation and stagnation
Why emotional growth is essential for modern masculinity
True crime as a survival tool for women
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Birth Rates: Most US Women Still Want Kids, but Half Aren't Sure They Canhttps://www.newsweek.com/usa-birth-rates-prospective-mothers-uncertainty-2087825
 
What is baby formula made out of anyway?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infant_formula#:~:text=Manufacturers%20state%20that%20the%20composition,are%20allergic%20to%20other%20proteins.
 
Ashanti calls Nelly out for sleeping through their baby's cries at nighthttps://www.buzzfeed.com/leylamohammed/nelly-parenting-comments-ashanti-backlash
 
What is a Passport Bro?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passport_bro#:~:text=Passport%20bro%20is%20a%20neologism,US%20if%20they%20wanted%20one.
 
Why the True Crime Audience Is Predominantly Femalehttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wicked-deeds/202306/why-the-true-crime-audience-is-predominantly-female#:~:text=Key%20points%20*%20Many%20female%20true%20crime,may%20not%20be%20so%20terrifying%20after%20all.
 
When Did Patriarchy Begin? 6,000-7,000 Years Agohttps://www.bbc.com/future/article/20230525-how-did-patriarchy-actually-begin#
 
Beef Prices Hit Record Highs in June. What’s Going On?https://www.nerdwallet.com/article/finance/why-is-beef-so-expensive#:~:text=Beef%20prices:%202014%20to%202025,per%20pound%20in%20the%20U.S.&text=Grocery%20price%20inflation%20overall%20is,should%20you%20spend%20on%20groceries
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:Listener MJ Explains The Gen X Experience With Porn:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8kXM1bx/
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters:00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!01:40 The Plummeting Birthrate07:10 Breastfeeding Challenges11:32 Nelly Sleeps Through Baby Screaming16:32 True Crime and Women26:33 Men's Mental Health: A Burden on Women34:52 Porn's Effect On Men46:20 Patriarchy: Historical Context50:54 Bad Markers Of Masculinity54:28 Generational Differences in Male Identity57:08 The Consequences of Exploitation01:06:50 Loneliness in Men01:15:30 Women’s Response01:21:13 Mailbag: Navigating A Misogynistic Workplace01:43:18 Poll Results: Consent, Coercion, and Control
 
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.
 
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"Pick-Me" Dating Tips Exposed

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen break down the most harmful dating advice women get from so-called “Pick-Me” mentors, and why being “chosen” should never be your goal. From Auntie wisdom at family gatherings to viral advice from online coaches, we unpack the hidden misogyny behind it all. But first, in Tea Time, we discuss Slim Thug’s fixation on Megan Thee Stallion, Uber’s mounting legal problems, the 4chan users hacking of the Tea App, and the five Canadian hockey players acquitted in a high-profile sexual assault case. Then, in Feminist Herstory, we spotlight Catherine the Great.
 
🎧 This episode is a deep dive into the dating “advice” designed to keep women small, compliant, and afraid of being alone - and why rejecting that fear is your first step toward freedom.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The dangerous myth of “being chosen”
How Pick-Me culture punishes self-respecting women
The emotional cost of dating advice from male centered women
Why staying single is always better than dating a terrible man
How dependency on men sabotages women’s futures
What Catherine the Great can teach us about power and survival
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
 
Slim Thug Calls Speculation That He's Interested in Megan Thee Stallion 'Stupid'https://www.complex.com/music/a/jaelaniturnerwilliams/slim-thug-calls-rumors-that-hes-interested-in-megan-thee-stallion-stupid
Sovereign’s Video On Slim Thug and Megan Thee Stallionhttps://youtu.be/i0PbSTP_Srw?si=X1CIIYCaKKLTm8-q
Man Sentenced to Life in Prison for Brutal Murder of Mom-of-Four Uber Driverhttps://people.com/man-sentenced-life-in-prison-murder-uber-driver-11728872
Rideshare Lawsuit for Assault in Uber & Lyft (July 2025)https://www.sokolovelaw.com/personal-injury/sexual-abuse/uber-lyft-rideshare-assault/
Uber Sexual Assault Lawsuitshttps://www.lawsuit-information-center.com/uber-sex-assault-lawsuit.html
Hackers Leak 13,000 User Photos and IDs From the Tea Apphttps://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna221139
Man Smashes Wife’s Car To Keep Her From Going Through His Phonehttps://www.tiktok.com/@thereal_beverly/video/7531563693096619277
Gulabi Gang – Female Vigilante Group in Indiahttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gulabi_Gang
Cats Listening To Neighbors Arguehttps://www.tiktok.com/@sierra.knell/video/7483444770736655662
Five Ice Hockey Players Found Not Guilty in Canada Sexual Assault Casehttps://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cn0qlwnyy70o.amp
Human Development Index
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_Human_Development_Index
The Egg Decides Which Sperm Fertilizes Ithttps://www.news-medical.net/news/20200611/The-egg-decides-which-sperm-fertilizes-it.aspx
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:We Need A Reckoninghttps://bluecactuspress.com/product/we-need-a-reckoning/
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters:00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!02:10 Slim Thug’s Obsession With Megan Thee Stallion04:52 Uber’s New Feature and Safety Concerns10:57 The Tea App Hacked17:48 5 Hockey Players Found Not Guilty24:58 Pick-Me Dating Tips Exposed35:07 Standards and Non-Negotiables in Relationships50:08 The Dangers of Dependency on Men01:04:23 Choosing vs. Being Chosen in Dating01:07:44 Feminist Herstory: Catherine the Great01:20:52 Poll Results: Male Dating Coaches
 
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Consent, Coercion, and Control

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen unpack the real meaning of consent, how women are taught to compromise it, how coercion often masquerades as choice, and why detachment can be a radical act of protection. But first, in Tea Time, we discuss the Epstein client list and how the right wing dropped it like a hot potato, the viral “Coldplay Couple” controversy, and how public shaming culture disproportionately targets women. Then in our Mailbag, a listener writes in about confronting misogyny from their gay male friends, and we talk about how patriarchy shows up across all sexual orientations.
 
🎧 This episode is a deep dive into emotional self-defense, how consent is framed in culture and relationships, and why power is always the elephant in the room.
 
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
Why consent isn’t just about yes or no — it’s about power
How coercion is normalized in dating and media
The Coldplay Couple and the pitfalls of online vigilante justice
Surveillance culture and the myth of moral purity
Misogyny in queer spaces and the politics of emotional labor
 
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:Jeffrey Epstein is splitting MAGA. Will he sink Trump and Republicans?https://thehill.com/opinion/white-house/5409084-epstein-client-list-trump-maga-fight/
What is a Lolita Girl?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolita_(term)
Epstein had bizarre painting of Bill Clinton in dress, heels in townhousehttps://nypost.com/2019/08/14/epstein-had-bizarre-painting-of-bill-clinton-in-dress-heels-in-townhouse/
The Panama Papershttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Panama_Papers
The Coldplay concert affair captivated the internet. But is it time to move on?https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2025/07/21/ceo-coldplay-concert-couple-affair-obsession/85305715007/
Cierra Ortega, booted off ‘Love Island,’ addresses racist slurshttps://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/tv/story/2025-07-10/love-island-former-contestant-responds-after-racist-post
Buzzfeed’s ‘Tasty’ Slammed For Tone-Deaf Joke About ‘Love Island USA’ Contestant Chelleyhttps://www.vibe.com/news/movies-tv/buzzfeeds-slammed-love-island-usa-joke-chelley-1235085384/
Marital rape in the United Stateshttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_rape_in_the_United_States
 
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:Look Into The Art Of Detachment11 Powerful Ways To Master The Art Of Detachment To Live An Unbothered Lifehttps://www.yourtango.com/self/powerful-ways-master-art-detachment-live-unbothered-life#:~:text=Letting%20go%20doesn't%20have%20to%20be%20scary.&text=The%20art%20of%20detachment%20is,a%20person%20on%20the%20backburner.
 
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🕰️ Episode Chapters:00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!01:34 The Epstein Files and Political Accountability06:25 The Impact of Wealth and Power on Justice13:19 "Coldplay Couple" Witch Hunt Hurts Women16:28 Is Vigilante Justice Bad For Society?29:40 Introduction to Consent34:01 Entitlement and Approaching Women41:11 Commenting On Women's Clothing45:50 Pornography's Effects On Consent49:44 Historical Context of Consent and Entitlement55:18 The Right to Say No01:07:35 Blue Balls Isn't A Thing01:12:00 The Calm Abuser01:15:27 The Burden of Female Sexuality01:19:25 Men's Lack of Responsibility in Sexual Pleasure01:23:58 The Prize Mentality in Relationships01:27:25 Mailbag: Misogyny In Gay Men?01:40:15 Poll Results: Power Protects Predators
 
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.
 
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